There is so much involved in planning a wedding that it can be easy to forget about the very reason you're having the wedding in the first place! Love and romance are what have brought you to this day; and it should be evident in everything you do on your wedding day. You're committing to a life together - so don't forget to make your plans together! It can be very easy for the groom to say "Just tell me where to be and I'll be there" , but now more and more grooms are getting involved in the plans. With the popularity of 'Don't Tell the Bride' they have all suddenly discovered their secret wedding planning abilities! This can be a great thing - you will be so busy making all the plans for your ceremony, reception, honeymoon and indeed the rest of your lives that you'll need as much help as you can get. Do it together, make sure that everything you plan is a harmonious choice for both of you and most of all, enjoy it together! Romance is the greatest theme you can bring to your wedding and it should come naturally.